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Writing Moment by Moment

April 19, 2010 by Linda Joy Myers  
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I just returned from the wonderful National Association of Poetry conference in Washington DC, and want to invite writers to include poetry more as they write, heal, and reflect on the important moments of your lives.
At the conference, I taught a Spiritual Memoir workshop called “Moments of Being” named for the amazing book of collected memoir pieces by Virginia Woolf. In 1922, Virginia Woolf stood up in front of friends and colleagues and discussed the sexual abuse she had suffered by her half-brother George Duckworth, as well as other happier memories, some of which formed the basis for her book To the Lighthouse. In those days, and in London especially, this was a bold and brave act. She writes not only of this darkness in her life, but dares to write deeper truths about her father and other family members in ways they would not have approved of. By the time she wrote the memoir pieces, some members of her family had died, which perhaps gave her permission.

During my workshop, I encouraged everyone to come up with a “Turning Point List” of events that were significant in a deeply emotional or spiritual way, and then to write one of those stories. I also talked with the group about plotting their turning points on a timeline so they could visually locate when these events happened.
Suggestion: Write a list of 10-20 turning points, moments of being, moments of significance in your life. Then each week, choose 2-4 of those moments and write about them. Soon, you will have written what could be the spine of your memoir. Writing even just 20 minutes at a time helps you to get your memoir written!
Be Brave–Write your Story

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4 Responses to “Writing Moment by Moment”
  1. Linda, excellent advice. It’s those emotional turning points that carry the threads of our lives. Also, writing about scenes that had emotional impact on us in some way also bring up other, related memories. I believe that writing about and through our lives, whether in poetry or prose, is both art and healing at the same time.

  2. Josie Mixon says:

    Dear Linda Joy, the power of speaking out about the abuse in our lives enables us to face the demon. We spend so much time being ashamed of ourselves when we were the victims and the shame should be in what was done to us and not in what we have done.

    It was a pleasure to meet you in DC and I am so happy to establish an immediate connection with you. I will continue writing my memoirs and my story of abuse so that maybe one day it will benefit other survivors or victims of abuse. Thank you for your kindness and words of encouragement.

  3. Linda Joy Myers says:

    Hi Josie
    Thanks so much for writing. You inspired me at the conference with your powerful personal story and your great poems. They spoke of so much in a few words and images. You are helping women to realize that they can find their voices too and their freedom from the pain and patterns of abuse.
    I hope your poems will have world wide audiences!
    And I enjoyed seeing the Capitol by night with you–what an adventure we had!

    –Linda Joy

  4. I wasn’t able to get to DC but was able to meet you briefly in Austin. Sounds like a fantastic workshop ~ thanks for sharing!
    Dawn

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